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Giluwas Si Pidot Ni Senyor Santo Niño

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Nagdako si Pidot sa kinabuhi nga pinasagdan. Libod suroy, barkadista ug bisyoso.

“Mao nay angay nimo! Wala kay kangho! Gadako lang imong pabawnan! Dili ka masugo sa buluhaton sa panimalay!” singgaak ni Noy Kunot.

“Pero, unsaon ko man naanad naman ko sa buhat sa pagkamangunguot ug pagkabutangero. Nagsalig ra ko ug pagpanghingi sa mga tsuper sa sakyanan pasaheroan sa dalan Colon. Maayo na lang gani nga nakabiya ko sa bisyo’s pagamit ug shabu kay nahadlok kos tokhang!” tubag ni Pidot dala pinakunot sa iyang agtang.

“Maminaw ka nako kay ako ang mas nahibawo kay kanimo. Ako ang imong amahan.” Pasabot ni Noy Kunot.

“Ah, kasaba. Molakaw nako oy. Kanindot pa unta sa akong pagnakinnakin dinhi sa pantawan samtang naglantaw sa mga entrante sa sinulog 2017. Kanindot tan-awon sa mga mananayaw. Mga mamords ra ba kaayo. Molakaw na ko.” pulong pa ni Pidot dayong biya.

Wala na pamatia pa ni Pidot ang tagawtaw sa iyang amahan. Mipaturatoy siya pagawas sa ilang panimalay. Magbagdoybagdoy siya. Mangita ug kapanibaan.

“Maayo pa, manguot ko. Maayo ron ang tiyempo. Daghan kaayo ang magdanghag lang, Dili mag-amping sa ilang mga bag ug bulsa. Nindot kaayong kuotan.” Misuol ang kabadlongon ni Pidot.

“Psssssst…Bay Pidot, maayo kay nakit-an ka namo.” Sampit pa ni Oka, ang banggiitang negosyante ug pulbos sa Duljo, Fatima.

“Bay Oka, ikaw man diay ni. Ngano man diay?”

“Dako ron ang kita, mamaligya ta’g gidili nga drugas sa Mango Square. Maayo didto daghan ang mga batan-on. Maghitak ang mga mangita ug pulbos.” Nagngisi nga namulong si Oka.
“Dili ko mokuyog ug pamaligya Oka. Delikado na kaayo ron. Linibo ang gipakatap nga pulis sa lainlaing suok sa dakbayan. Masikwate unya ko. Kamo lang. Bahala na mo diha kay manguot ra ko ron. Maayo rong panahona daghan kaayo ang kuotonon.” Tubag ni Pidot dayong talikod ni Oka.

Samtang gisubay ni Pidot ang dalan sa Jones Ave., padulong sa simbahan sa Santo Niño may nakita siyang usa ka inahan nga nagkugos sa iyang masuso. Naghilak. Daw may gipangita. Iyang giduol.

“Day, naunsa man diay ka? May nahitabo ba?” pangutana ni Pidot.

“Ang akong usa ka anak, nawala. Nabuhian nako samtang nanglakaw mi padung na unta mi manguli sa Guadalupe gikan nanimba. Nagkabayayat man gud kog kugos ug patutoy ning akong masuso. Hasta akong pitaka nadala raba sa akong anak. Nawala. Huhuhu. ” Mingaab ang inahan sa bata.

Hilom nga mibiya si Pidot.

Naabot si Pidot sa sunod iskina.

“Mao kini ang tiyempo. May duha ka babaye nagtapad. Nagtalikod sila nako. Ang usa, batan-ong babaye nagkarsones. Nalingaw silang duha ug tan-aw sa nanayaw sa huni sa sinulog. Nisiwil sa luyo nga bulsa sa karsones sa batan-ong babaye ang selpon. Jackpot. Murag iPhone 7. May tapad pud siyang babaye nga wanggets nga nagsab-it ug shoulder bag sa iyang abaga. Murag puno kaayo. Namungingi siya sa alahas. Ayos. Manukad na ko, sakdapan nako ning duha. Usa ra ni kahulbot.” Tukma nga padulong nang hasmag si Pidot sa iyang nakita nga kuotonon, dihang may nabati siyang may mikabyon sa iyang bitiis.

“Yamat ra, kinsa man ning mikabyon.?” Nakalitan si Pidot.

“Bata man ni. Sa akong tan-aw mga upat ka tuig pa. Naa siyay gibitbit nga pitaka?” hilom nga namulong si Pidot sa kaugalingon.

“Hu-hu-hu” mingaab ang bata.

“Oi naunsa man ka?”

“Nabiyaan ko ni mama”

Nasangit ang panan-aw ni Pidot sa gidala sa bata. Usa ka pitaka.

“Kasuwerte, ang pitaka na gyuy miduol nako. Akong kuhaon.”

“Ayaw kuhaa ang pitaka. Gipagunitan ni ni mama nako. Mao ni ang manalipod nako pung pa niya.”
“Ah mao ba. Akong ning huwaman ha. Pinugos nga gikuha ni Pidot ang pitaka gikan sa kamot sa bata nga iyang giwakli.

“Hehehe, pagkasuwerte.”

Dili layo sa nahimutangan ni Pidot, ang duha ka babaye nga nakit-an ni Pidot giduol ug unipormado nga mga polis.

“Mam, gipakuha namo ni General. Naghulat siya ninyo sa iyang buhatan sulod sa kampo. Adto mo maniudto. Gipanid-an ra mo sa among mga kauban nga pulis nga nagpaatbang lang. Safety mo. Daghan ming mga pulis nga gipakatag. Kanang naninda ug balot sa atbang pulis na. Kanang namaligya ug kawo nga buli sa inyong kilid pulis na. Ug andam nang mamusil kon naay manulis nga musukol kon dakpon”

“Salamat ha nga naabot, na mo. Daghan raba kuno ang mga mangunguot dinhi.” Pulong pa sa wanggit nga babaye.

Dili ka mabalaka Mam. Daghan ron ang mga pulis nga nagkatag. Sa may Mango Square gani may napusilan namo didto ganina nga namaligyaay ug gidili nga druga shabu.”

Namugnaw si Pidot sa iyang nadungog. Nakuyawan siya. Maayo na lang nga gikabyonan siya sa bata maong napugngan siya sa iyang tuyo nga manguot ug selpon.

“Ah dong, dali kuyogan tika sa imong mama. Ako to siyang nakit-an ganina.”

“Salamat Noy ha. Ang pitaka nga akong gigunitan ganina Noy, naa man na sa imong kamot. Ablihi lang na”

Ayaw Dong oi. Imoha man ni.

“Ablihi lang na.”

Tuod man giablihan ni Pidot ang pitaka. Ug dili siya makatuo sa iyang nakita. Ang imahen ni Senyor Santo Niño nga nagngisi ang gibutang sa sulod niini ug wala nay lain pa.

Nanglugmaw ang luha sa mga mata ni Pidot. Nakaamgo na siya sa dakong sayop sa iyang pagkatawo. Giluwas siya ni Senyor Santo Niño. (KATAPUSAN)

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How Much Sleep Do You Need?

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When you’re struggling to drop off, or if you’re battling the demands of work and home life, you can find yourself wondering how much sleep you can get away with. Is it ok to have just four or five hours or must you get a solid eight or nine hours every night?

If you’re suffering from insomnia, or just the demands of a newborn baby, you may be wondering – how much sleep do you need?

How Much Sleep Do You Need on Average?

This is a difficult question to answer as the amount of sleep a person needs depends on a lot of different factors like age, health and lifestyle.

Many people think staying up through the night to get work finished or to meet a deadline means they are being more productive but the science shows the opposite is true.

Without enough sleep, you are sluggish and impaired which means you work slower and make more mistakes. So, next time you’re struggling on a project, take yourself to bed and get some sleep. You’ll wake up refreshed and more creative – producing better work in the long run!

There is also a difference between the amount of sleep you actually need and the amount that is recommended for you to work at your best. While you can survive on fewer hours sleep, that is only a short-term solution and you should aim to get the optimum amount.

You might be able to carry on with only six or seven hours sleep for a few days but over time this will take its toll and you should be spending more time resting.

Some inherited factors like your genes can also affect how many hours of sleep you need to function at your best.

 

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In many official forms today, people are given gender choices: Mister, Miss, Mrs., Ms. plus that ambiguous word “Other,” about which I have always wondered. I know it to be a gender-neutral honorific but who actually ticks it off?

I need never wonder again.

According to Merriam-Webster, “Other” refers to those who do not identify themselves as belonging to a particular gender—or those who don’t want to be identified by gender.

Can you guess what this world-famous dictionary did to acknowledge “Other?” While we weren’t looking, it added an honorific just for him/her/whomever.

Pronounced as mix, this new word has been in the Merriam-Webster Unabridged since April 2016 and added to their online dictionary last September 2017.

While the word isn’t used as an official title globally yet, it is already recognized and adopted in the UK and soon other parts of the world may follow suit. Men and women can then freely use it.

And men and women will completely be mixed up. No more shall there be bad and good, rude and polite, correct and incorrect, man and woman, black and white—just all shades in between.

2018 will be cluttered and mixed-up with new words and new identities, reminiscent of our famous Filipino dessert called “halo-halo” (transliterated as mix-mix).

In one tall glass are many kinds of fruits and some vegetables in various colors and shapes with bits and pieces of native cakes thrown it, plus milk and sugar mixed in crushed ice and ice-cream.

More and more people will demand for ways to acknowledge themselves, their individuality, their  me-ness.

This is not at all surprising; it is not going to get better. Apostle Paul warned Timothy, “. . . that in the last days there will be very difficult times.  For people will love only themselves and their money. They will be boastful and proud, scoffing at God, disobedient to their parents, and ungrateful. They will consider nothing sacred.”  1Timothy 3:1-2 (NLT)

By grace, we can keep the faith.

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The Unspoken Word: Aging

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People often say to me, “You don’t look your age.” I don’t quite know how to react—smile or smirk. I am sure they mean well and want to make me feel good, but somehow, there’s a disconnect somewhere.

feel my age. Every single year of it. I feel it in my bones, in my muscles, in my eyes, in my ears, in my gums, on my scalp and on my skin—in every place of me.

Does that mean my body parts have aged before my looks?

Sheila Nevins (aged 78), an American television producer and the President of HBO Documentary Films, calls this “compliment” to women of a certain age as fairy tale. In fact, she wrote a satirical and hilarious book about women in this late life stage. She titled it: “You Don’t Look Your Age and Other Fairy Tales.”

When (or if) I get to be her age and still writing or training young writers in workshops and seminars, I will probably be hearing more “You don’t look your age.”

Our late househelp Manang Vi, whose oral bluntness was unrivaled, had doused my delight, “When people say that to you, they’re wrong.”

I replied, “You mean, they’re lying?”

She said, “No. They just don’t know what they’re saying.”

God bless her soul.

There’s a statement that I wish people would say instead, “You’re aging with grace.” But there’s a stigma attached to the word “aging.” You don’t dare speak it to other people’s lined face, unless you are a physician specializing in geriatrics.

The word grace does not come naturally in conversations, either—unless you are in Sunday school or a prayer meeting.

But since “You don’t look your age” seems to be the “in” thing to say to people whose looks have obviously transformed from a fresh plum to a dried prune through the years, I should be grateful.

Whatever changes my body (or mind) has gone and will go through, the only One that matters remains unchanged.

“I will be your God throughout your lifetime—until your hair is white with age. I made you, and I will care for you. I will carry you along and save you.” I Isaiah 46:4 (NLT)

 Grace D. Chong

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Source of Security

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During my first year of marriage, Raynie asked me the deadliest question spouses could ask one another: “Why do you love me?”

Now, I know that many of you think this question is sweet or cute or harmless. But I assure you, this can be a trap for any person’s insecurities. So before I tell you my answer, let me talk about why this question can be dangerous.

So many people judge themselves using worldly standards. That means they look at the mirror and assess themselves according to their looks, their accomplishments, their fashion, their intelligence, or even their social circles. That’s how the world judges.

When it comes to relationships, this becomes the standard by which people judge themselves and one another. I know it can happen to both men and women since both put their hearts on the line when they get to know one another. The man risks getting rejected while the woman risks feeling unwanted. So let’s ask the question again: WHY DO YOU LOVE ME?

When a girl asks that question to a guy, she is usually looking for security. For a christian girl to ask that from a christian guy? Oh, that’s a relational death trap. Here’s where the cycle of insecurity comes in.

Girls tend to think:
“I’m not good enough.”
“I’m not kind enough.”
“I’m not pretty enough.”
“I’m not smart enough.”
“I’m not intelligent enough.”
“I’m not successful enough.”
“I’m not sweet enough.”
“I’m not sporty enough.”
“I’m not sexy enough.”
“I’m not independent enough.”
“I’m not strong enough.”
“i’m not feminine enough.”

And guess what. At some point in your life, one or more of these statements will be true. There will ALWAYS be someone smarter, richer, prettier, funnier, sexier, stronger, kinder, etc…

When you compare yourself to others, you will ALWAYS lose. When you use the world’s standards to evaluate your desirability, you will always lose. When you use the world’s standards to find security, you will always lose. AND WHEN YOU ASK THE OPPOSITE SEX THIS QUESTION, and expect him or her to evaluate you based on worldly standards, you will BOTH lose.

Take at look at this cycle:
1- Why do you like me? (the girl is using worldly standards)
2- The guy thinks she’s pretty (the girl got her wish and got judged by worldly standards)
3- Someone prettier comes along (the girl loses and feels insecure)
4- She then gets angry at the guy (she blames him for using worldly standards to judge her)
5- She then looks for a guy who has lower standards, or improves herself to fit that standard
6- Repeat step 1

AND THIS GOES FOR MEN AS WELL AS WOMEN!

The solution? Stop judging yourself and evaluating yourself using worldly standards. Instead, judge yourself based on the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ. You are valuable not because you’re rich or funny or successful, BUT BECAUSE THE GOD WHO CREATED THE UNIVERSE DEEMED YOU VALUABLE ENOUGH TO BEAR THE CROSS OF CALVARY. We are sinners, deserving of wrath, yet received grace from God when we repent of our sins! How does that change things when it comes to our relationships? Well, for starters, we realize that we do not and will never deserve a spouse. We will never deserve receiving another human being as a gift, to love us despite our sinfulness. AND YET GOD BECAME MAN TO LOVE US AS ANOTHER HUMAN BEING. The result is humility. Not pride. We won’t feel that we deserve to be loved, and yet will receive love with a humble and grateful heart!

Secondly, because our value and security is in Christ and His cross, we won’t feel threatened that others are richer, smarter, funnier, and etc because every other person is just a richer sinner, a funnier sinner, a prettier sinner, a more successful sinner… and when we see this, the playing field is leveled for everyone. We are all in need of grace. We are all the same. And in that sense, there’s no need for competition.
So please, don’t settle for a guy or a girl who loves you based on worldly standards. You might think it would be better than being lonely, but trust me. Marrying a guy or a girl for the wrong reasons will only INCREASE your loneliness. Why? Because you won’t be with a guy or girl married to you. Not really. Instead, you’ll be with a guy who is married to your face, or your bank account, or your sex appeal, or your wits, or whatever it is that he married you for.

Don’t judge or evaluate yourself using worldly standards, and don’t ever allow others to do so. Rather, base everything on Christ’s Cross. And be with someone who wants to be with you for the right reasons. But what are the right reasons? Well, let me answer the question my wife asked me: Why do you love me?

My answer?

“Because God placed a love in my heart for you.”
“Because I see Christ being formed in you.”
“Because I see Christ being formed in me through you.”

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